Ask Brian is a weekly column by Real Estate Expert Brian Kline. If you have questions on real estate investing, DIY, home buying/selling, or other housing inquiries please email your questions to askbrian@realtybiznews.com.
Question from Lynda in IL: Hi Brian, I don’t really have a question. I just wanted to share with others the best real estate decision that I’ve made as I enter old age. I’m 71 and my husband was nine years older than me. He passed away five years ago, leaving me with a large four-bedroom, one-den, three-bath, three-car garage home on a large lot in the suburbs. I’m not even sure why we had such a large home since we never had children but that is where I found myself. After being alone for four years, I found myself only living in a few rooms, the master bedroom with a bath, the family room, and the kitchen. I no longer had much in common with the neighbors. At first, I thought the neighborhood had changed because we used to visit with neighbors frequently, but I wasn’t anymore. Then I realized I had changed more than the neighborhood. Over the years, the old friends had sold and moved away. The new neighbors were families with children much the same as it had been 20-years ago. I had become the old lady down the street and didn’t have much in common with any of them. I was becoming lonely and isolated.
That’s when I decided to do something to improve the later years of my life. A year ago, I moved into a 55 and older one-bedroom one-bath condo. I’m much happier here. I’m also much better off financially. I have a lot fewer expenses here – no yard maintenance, lower utilities, almost no repairs, less insurance, etc. After one short year, I still don’t know too many of the people here well, but I have started joining some of the activities and getting to know more people closer to my age. Life has gotten much better than the first several years after my husband passed and I just wanted to share my experience with others.
Answer: Hello Lynda. I’m glad things have worked out so well for you. Since you didn’t ask a particular question, I’m happy to share your story and also share a few tips and insights for baby boomers thinking about downsizing. One place to start is by thinking about how technology has made downsizing easier and more convenient. For instance, in the age of Uber, Lyft, and other car services, aging drivers have less need to own a car. If you don’t own a car, you don’t need a garage. Those who like to read also no longer need a den with books shelves filled with printed books because today every book is available in the cloud and is read from a Kindle or notepad. Community-based living means having a clubhouse with all the amenities available for entertaining. The overall result is less need for a large home.
Finding the perfect time to downsize isn’t simple. If you’ve recently retired, your new lifestyle takes time for adjustment. Fortunately, you now have time to make these adjustments exactly the way you want to.